How many times did you hesitate to include news about your ex(s) or whoever in the range of the likes (crush, rejected ones) in your conversation with your friends but threw away the thoughts hastily just because you were afraid that your friends might be misinterpreting you still had feelings for him/her albeit in the actual case, you didn’t?
So yeah, I’ve been there few times so as many girls. for the first few months, might be a little throbbing if we actually were in love with them. It might be up for a year or so. But I don’t think it’d go beyond several years. come on. For once, don’t let outsiders define your feeling. I mean, if it’s true that you’re no longer rooting on how your last scene of fairy-tale will be closing stage and you already accept/swallow the fact that you two are way over long ago, then don’t bother of the trivial matter such as the claim. you friends might point their opinion out on that, but it does not necessarily true.
So yeah, it’s normal for you to hesitate and get afraid of being accused to still have a thing for your ex and the likes if you slip him into the conversation, by chance at that, and once again you should know that you know exactly what you’re feeling more than anybody else does. It’s not like you are talking about him every single day in every single matter, then if that’s the case, you should’ve abandon any thoughts of him because plainly crystal clear- you are not over him/her just yet. Do not worry of that as your time will finally come when you take in the reality of which he’s just like a passing evening breeze. Plain, unseen, just there for a short while, and doesn’t matter.
lend me a little faith on that, dear god.
i'm not gonna talk about that, neither by tongue or written. full stop.
all i have to do is wait, then wait i shall.
